Friday, March 31, 2023


 

I was asked for a recommendation for a good gift for a four year old.  Without hesitation, I answered, "flashlight."

As a kid, I loved playing with a flashlight as much I enjoyed throwing a ball against our brick garage wall.  My family was a big outdoors crew. Our family vacations were serious, walk-a-mile into the woods and set up camp experiences. Having a good walking stick and flashlight were standard, flashlights gave comfort in the dark nights in the woods and were way cool to shine on the inside of the tent walls.

Give a kid a flashlight and they are entertained for hours. Ever play flashlight tag?

In these days in which we journey --- another school shooting, cruel hoaxes of a possible active shooter, anger, tension, fear, and...oh, yeah, a former US president about to be indicted --- yowzers....we need light and lots of it in whatever way we can get it, shine it, be it.

The followers of Jesus are called to be the light of the world and to shine; one of the first songs we learn as kids at Vacation Bible School or Sunday School is "This Little Light of Mine" and it's tune and words are easy to learn and to be sung ad infinitum. And it is....blessed be.

There is the familiar phrase of "either be the light or reflect the light."  I offer another in one of those "Holy Nudge" moments that I read during today's morning Quiet Time:  

“SOMETIMES OUR LIGHT GOES OUT, BUT IS BLOWN INTO FLAME BY AN ENCOUNTER WITH ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. EACH OF US OWES THE DEEPEST THANKS TO THOSE WHO HAVE REKINDLED THIS LIGHT.”  

~ Albert Schweitzer


.....find it....be it.....become it.....



Tuesday, March 28, 2023

The better begins now


 During the early, scary, isolating time of the pandemic, I did what I realize I often do and that was to look to the children.  Be it their messages of hope shared in sidewalk chalk, asking if I wanted to play catch, their resiliency in not losing their bounce in their steps or the brightness in their smiles....all were a balm to my being.

The fact that guns are the leading cause of death for children in America should pause us, piss us off and push us to finally find the courage to act.

How many more?  Are we numb? Indifferent? Too busy? Too distant?

As with most things, we can solve it, we just need the want to. It's sobering to realize, we don't.  It's shameful that this is how we love and care for our children...all children.

When I worked for the Children's Defense Fund, founder and CEO, Marian Wright Edelman during a planning meeting coined the phrase "Cradle to Prison Pipeline."  I have always thought with most of the major issues we must take the pipeline approach and solve from a multi-disciplinary approach. What is your field, your profession, your passion? Ask, reflect and answer what that particular discipline can do to lead toward an effective, time-is-NOW solution. Offer it to the shared effort. 

Can more dead children focus us on solving the issue not passing blame and pointing fingers at those who own guns versus those who offer thoughts and prayers versus a lacking mental health support system?  

First Lady Jill Biden said, "Our children deserve better." I hope that we are those better people.